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How to Talk to Friends & Families Who Believe Misinformation
Misinformation can spread like wildfire. It can cause unnecessary panic and confusion during an emergency, making it harder for people to respond effectively. If someone you know is caught up in misinformation or myths, here’s how to guide friends and family toward the facts without starting a fight.
Step 1: Keep It Cool & Compassionate
- No one likes to be told they’re wrong. Avoid confronting or making fun of them.
- Acknowledge their concerns before jumping in with corrections.
- Focus on ‘I’ statements instead of ‘you’ accusations.
- Try saying:
- “I totally get why that might seem true, but…”
- “I heard that too, so I did some digging…”
- “That’s a common claim, but here’s what experts from ____ actually say…”
Step 2: Ask, Don’t Assume
- Encourage them to think critically about their sources instead of arguing.
- Ask:
- “Where did you hear that?”
- “Are you sure that source is reliable?”
- “Have you checked to see if other verifiable sources confirm this?”
Step 3: Bring in the Facts
- Share expert-backed, up-to-date resources.
- For example, if talking about the recent LA wildfires:
Step 4: Explain How Misinformation Spreads
- Talk about frequent sources of misinformation such as AI generated images or common misconceptions.
- Explain how social media algorithms fuel the spread of false information.
- Use independent fact-checking tools such as:
Step 5: Encourage a "Wait & Investigate" Mindset
- Suggest they take a moment before sharing news.
- Offer questions to consider first:
- “Does this source have a hidden motive in sharing this information (e.g., to scare you, trick you, persuade you to buy something)?”
- “Is this claim backed by experts?”
- “Is this post trying to stir up fear or outrage?”
- “Will sharing this information help others?”
Step 6: Lead by Example
- Only share fact-based, up-to-date info on your own social media.
- Be a source of reliable, level-headed updates for your community.
- Be kind even when you don’t agree.
Step 7: Know When to Let It Go
- If they won’t budge, don’t escalate the argument.
- Let them sit with it—people may need time to reflect upon their beliefs.
- Keep the door open for future conversations.
How to Spot & Avoid Scams
Disasters can bring out the best in people—and the worst. In the aftermath of an emergency, scammers often try to take advantage of vulnerable victims. Don’t be fooled! Protect yourself and your community from scams in the wake of wildfires or other emergencies.
Fake FEMA & Government Scams
Fake Insurance & Financial Aid Scams
Fake Charities & Donation Scams
Rental & Housing Scams
Shady Contractors & Repair Scams
Final Scam-Proofing Tips
Pause and verify. Scammers prey on urgency. Always double-check before acting.
Trust your instincts. If something feels off, walk away.
Report scams!
If you suspect fraud, report it to the National Center for Disaster Fraud (NCDF) Hotline: 1-866-720-5721 or the California Attorney General’s Office.
Share this guide to protect your community from scams. Stay safe, stay informed, and don’t let scammers take advantage of you or your loved ones!